Between Church and dinner at the folks house last night I only managed to get three lady friend suggestions. Wow, what a downer. Actually I think that matches my previous top day. It is such an interesting thing having someone approach you about having the perfect person for you. Now look, I know that there are a lot of wonderful women out there, wonderful sisters in the church. Just because someone is single and I am single it doesn't make us a perfect match. Oh my goodness. I seriously believe that going out with someone's "friend" is one of the hardest things to do. It certainly creates an enormous amount of anxiety for me. They already believe their friend and I are perfect for each other and that just kind of makes it weird. I feel like a jerk if I tell someone I am not interested in going out with their friend or them. It is just rude. I try not to be rude and it leads to my own suffering. Let me simplify with this: Re-entering the dating scene after you have been married and have kids, well, I think it stinks - the dating that is.
I have nothing more to say at this time.
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