Thursday, March 1, 2012

Learn From Them

Natalie went to her first activity with the Young Women yesterday evening.  She loved it and is excited about being there.  I am very happy for her.  I posted a question on FaceBook on the topic and asked if it was okay for me to get a little emotional over these things.  I got a few replies and naturally that included a bit of mockery by Dave and Amy.  I love them.  I never said why I got emotional and thought I would just share the moment here. 

I walked Natty to the door because she was nervous.  Sister Thorley, the YW President was there waiting for her and was fantastic.  I ran back out to the truck and was heading out of the parking lot.  Sister Thorley and Natalie were walking down the sidewalk towards SUU and I watched them for a bit.  Sister Thorley put her arm around Natty and just loved her and that was it, that was my moment.  I am not afraid on Natty growing up, she has had to grow up a lot over the last few years.  No, my moment was one of gratitude for my Heavenly Father and for the blessings of the Gospel in our lives.  I have hurt for Natalie because there is only so much that I am able to provide as the single father in the home.  I lack so many things and to see her with this righteous leader and role model just filled me with hope and gratitude. 

I try, I try hard to be the kind of person I need to be for my children.  I don't always succeed in fact I fail quite a lot.  Personally I am unable to compensate for Natty's mom not being in the home.  That is hard for me and there are times when I simply hurt for my children.  We are fortunate to have Grandma and a couple of Aunts here in town that help so much I am grateful for that.  I am grateful for the leaders of the young women in our ward and am so happy that Natty will be able to learn from them.   

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